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Reinventing YOURself inside & out. Mind. Body. Soul. For the woman on the verge of a breakdown but seeking a breakthrough.


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SKIP THE DRAMA

You can avoid a lot of needless drama by continuing to remind yourself of your purpose. Instead of wasting your time and energy on issues that make no difference, focus yourself on achieving the goals you’ve chosen.

If someone is standing in your way, your purpose is not to punish or belittle that person. Your purpose is to get beyond that person’s opposition in a positive, respectful and effective way.

Pouting, whining, intimidation, name calling, seeking to make others feel guilty, and similar tactics produce no real value for anyone. If you’re obsessed with getting even, it’s impossible for you to get ahead.

Your aim is to achieve your goal, to fulfill your purpose. It is not to diminish anyone else.

Put your energy into envisioning and creating positive, meaningful value. Put thoughts, feelings and efforts toward things that will do you, and others, some good.

Remember your purpose, and follow it in a positive, creative way. Skip all the drama and go straight to the goal.

— Ralph Marston


Breakthrough moments…

The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers. - M. Scott Peck

Success…

Success is strategic. Success is planned. Plan your work and then work your plan.

Perfect timing

“Do not wait for ideal circumstances nor the best opportunities, they will never come.” - Janet Stuart

Let yourself be

Let yourself be. Let yourself completely, sincerely, peacefully and joyfully be.

Experience the wonder and beauty of your existence in all its richness. Celebrate this moment not for what you can get from it but simply because you are here to live it.

Let yourself be, and let your magnificent creativity flow. Let yourself be, and embrace the abundance that surrounds you right now.

Let yourself enjoy your life in this beautiful world, just because you can. Let yourself express your own goodness in valuable, authentic ways.

Let yourself be, with no conditions or limitations imposed by your own judgment. Let yourself laugh, play, love, enjoy and create.

This is your day to bring new and meaningful substance to life. Let yourself be the best you can imagine.

— Ralph Marston

 

A friend once told me “Don’t ever stop in the middle of a storm!

Sight seeing

“In the business world, the rearview mirror is always clearer than the windshield”.- Warren Buffet. As the saying goes ‘hindsight is always 20/20’

Having a rough day??? A lil bit of afternoon inspiration 4 ya

Has it just been “one of those days?” Things didn’t go as planned? 

You must know without a shadow of doubt, things will get better & it will.